Having trouble finding that special someone? Just read on and find out all the tools you need to get the best girlfriend possible!
1 Talk to different girls. You'll never find that special someone if you don't look! Make sure you choose to talk to them a little more privately, but not all alone. Just don't have all your friends follow you. If you don't know what to say, just start with a simple "Hey" and talk or make a joke about the activity going on around you.
2 Be Kind. Just because it gets our attention, doesn't mean teasing us gets our affection. Girl are more sensitive than you'd think, and a simple on-purpose rude remark could cause us to never even think about TALKING to you.
3 Look Your Best. Girls aren't necessarily superficial, but combing your hair back, and putting on a nice shirt can go a long way. Just don't go to over board with the hair:) This doesn't mean you have to wear a suit, but a girl feels more comfortable someone who really cares about their appearance, yet isn't vain.
4 Follow Through If you meet a nice girl who seems interested in you, try to follow through with this. If you like her back, be willing and confident enough to ask her out. Be subtle at first. A guy we just met may seem creepy setting up a fancy candle lit dinner for two on our first casual meeting, connection or not.
5 Stick up for her. Their is nothing more appealing to a girl, than a guy who will stand up for her in front of his friends, even if you barely talk. This bravery tends to put you in a knight in shining armor appearance to her.
6 Listen to her. Girls love guys who are good listeners. When listening to her story don't share advice unless she asks for it. Just make sympathizing phrases, and ask her more questions. Try to mirror her body language to help her feel more open.
7 No matter what happens between you two, don't change your behavior towards her. It's a common misconception among females that men's romantic tendencies are fleeting. If you suddenly become cold, she might assume you don't feel the same and move on. Most girls don't chase a romance we feel is one sided.
Remember!
· Don't talk too much about yourself, or repeat stories about yourself. You will sound conceited and probably lose your girl.
· If she really doesn't like you, don't be offended. You just aren't her type. Avoid statement's like "friendzoned", as these are highly offensive. Girls aren't machines you put nice coins into and romantic interest comes out.
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